過了30歲,人生就是減法。
有同學在FB說年紀越大,越不重視生日。
我並沒有。
重視,不一定要大肆慶祝,只請假去獨自喝杯咖啡沉澱思緒,更加自在且適合我。
我就是既喜歡打卡秀出文青系美食,又享受思考人生回顧工作,不行嗎?
Why not both?
撕掉標籤,拒絕定位,
甚至連自己以前對「生日曲」的標準也放下,
生命才輕盈有力:
泳兒 - 《不可預見,只可遇見》
「大概一天總會開竅,勝負也淡淡一笑。」
我在上一個關於育兒心理學的免費網上課程 (把小孩的心理分成情感、理智、行動力三方面來教養),發現自己的行動力是三方面當中最糟的……
所以這個月在給自己建立一個新習慣。
In case anyone isn't familiar with the repertoire - this is a piece which normally requires a 40-piece orchestra. She's playing it on one harp. There is very little missing, she's making it work musically, and she's playing it with tremendous sensitivity. What she's doing here is almost impossible.
"And whenever the tormenting spirit from God troubled Saul, David would play the harp. Then Saul would feel better, and the tormenting spirit would go away." (1 Samuel 16:23 ~NIV)